Domestic Violence Message Board

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WEAVE provides services throughout the greater Sacramento California region and referrals provided on the message boards represent this area only. If you live outside of the Sacramento, California region, you may contact the National Domestic Violence Hotline at 1. HOPE for referrals in your community. We make every effort to answer all questions — even beyond these areas — but we cannot answer questions which are medical, significantly beyond the scope of our services, or ask legal questions in jurisdictions outside of Sacramento County. I have done more than one person should to be an awesome wife and change things about myself my husband put me down for like being a bartender because I thought his respect was something I could earn I have never disrespected or gone outside of my marriage and I am ashamed to say that from the very beginning even when we were dating he did very disrespectful things but he would apologized and I would want to believe him so I did. Fast forward almost 10 years we have been married 2 years when I met him he was a forklift driver for Costco in firefighter School I have nursed him through surgeries move to the other coast left everyone I know and loved so that he could start his career and that is when it all started. I am not worried about proving that he choked me because not only do I have the marks on my neck I have petechiae in my eyes which only comes from strangulation and lack of oxygen the thing is he is a firefighter thanks to the support he pretends like he never got from me and he tells me that he will get away with it because he knows all the police officers and I will be the one who ends up in jail I want to go get a protection order and have him removed from this house when it is he said she said and he has marks on him from me trying to get away from him are the police smart enough to see what those marks are and how they would happen or am I going to end up in jail for being stupid enough to marry a piece of crap who would rather hurt me then make me smile. I am divorcing him that is what the fight was about me getting half of the house.

Depending on someone for money is a terrible feeling. Imagine being a adult adult still living at home along with your parents. Now imagine marrying a big cheese, giving up your job to advance a family, and being entirely charge on your working spouse for altogether your spending needs. A common circumstance, but is it ideal? I a moment ago received an e-mail from a booklover who highlights the point about the importance of financial independence in a marriage.

You know how to take care of you. You get your first internship. You get your first credit certificate. You get to walk into Nordstrom, where your mom would never abide you, and congratulate yourself with individual fabulous black leather skirt, and the heels to match. Your car? The cocktails cost twice as much at the same time as you paid when you still calculated time by semesters and nights as a result of cans of PBR.

You can get rich by working arduous and investing wisely for a elongate time. Or you can get abound by founding a wealthy spouse. This post will share how to acquire a rich man to be your boyfriend or husband. Out of the million tax returns filed in the United States every year, about 1. Now imagine if there were 1.